If it matters, he’s in his 40s, in great shape, normal blood pressure, etc. But for the last hour they’re fairly tight, and for the last 20 or 30 minutes they’re almost unbearably tight. Some go over him and around the board, pressing him down to the board, others go around his body and cinch in. I’m worried that he’s going to have an embolism or something because of the straps. (We also have a leather straitjacket, but we use it a lot less often.) If he doesn’t complain or ask to get out, he’s rewarded with a hand-job when I’m done. Toward the end of the night, the straps are so tight he can’t move or even take a deep breath. I play video games for a few hours with my feet up on him. Most often I put him in his sleepsack-picture a leather sleeping bag you can’t get out of-which is strapped to a bondage board on the floor by our couch. But I worry about accidentally killing him. We’ve been able to make it work because he’s into a kind of bondage he calls “storage.” On “storage nights,” I put him in bondage and play video games while he “suffers.” So far, so good. I’m a fairly vanilla guy, while my husband is into bondage. I’m nervous about sending this question and my husband is afraid you might answer it.
